Thursday, September 18, 2014

Multitudes on Monday :: l.a.t.e.

We have been having issues with our new internet connection since Comcast came and installed our service two weeks ago. I have not been impressed with their customer service, and it has really been driving me crazy. The computer where I have ALL of my pictures isn't connecting, and it has made me want to pull my hair out. I have soooooooo many pictures right now from starting school, baseball, and the new house just waiting in limbo...

But for right now, while our internet connection is working (just not for my computer with ALL of my pictures...sorry, did I already say that?!?) Oh, yes...reasons to be thankful :)

3361. exploring our huge backyard and shrieking at many creatures (including crickets that kept hopping on my feet). I'm not a fan of creatures.

3362. no boxes upstairs

3363. a new house that already feels like home

3364. feeling crazy blessed and content every single second I am in our new home, and thanking God all of the time for His timing and His gifts

3365. how at home our kiddos feel already

3366. being closer to friends, co-op, the grocery (While Scott and I would love to live in the middle of nowhere someday, I am truly so happy with the location of our new home!)

3367. how the kiddos love to play in the yard, eat snacks and dessert on the front porch, and ride their bikes and scooters all over the place

3368. watching movies together that have been packed away for almost 8 months (our current favorites are Andy Griffith episodes, Spirit, The Berenstain Bears, and Mary Poppins)

3369. Birdie's obsession with 19 Kids and Counting...and how I am thrilled to have the Duggar girls as true role models for my daughter. We can hardly wait for the episode to see Jill and Derick get married!!

3370. Buddy-Ro starting baseball this past week

3371. how Buddy-Ro loves baseball simply because it's something he and Scott get to do together

3372. Yesterday during a game, Peanut fell between the bleachers (between the very bottom row and the next row up), and he hit his head pretty hard. He screamed so loud that Buddy-Ro could hear him on the ball field. So, as soon as Buddy-Ro's team came into the dugout, he ran over to check on his little brother. My heart could hardly contain all of the kisses and hugs and words of love for that boy...I did refrain, though, so as not to complete embarrass the ball player in front of his entire team. But MAN was I thankful for his sensitive and caring heart!

Psalm 69:30, "Let me shout God’s name with a praising song, Let me tell his greatness in a prayer of thanks."

Monday, September 8, 2014

Multitudes on Monday

3345. finally, FINALLY having most everything unpacked (or at least stored in the basement) in our new home!!

3346. first nights sleeping in the new house

3347. all three kiddos sleeping through two nights of thunderstorms in the new house...a first anywhere we have ever slept.

3348. paint colors that turned out even better than I imagined

3349. decorating ideas that I have been brewing in my head for months that actually worked once we got here

3350. pictures hanging on the walls to make our new house feel like home

3351. a pool party to meet new neighbors

3352. the kiddos swimming and playing in the new pool and having a great time

3353. cooking our first meals in our new home

3354. setting up our school room and starting school TODAY!!

3355. a successful and fun start to our school year

3356. toys, puzzles, sensory bins, and toddler-proof items for Peanut to busy himself with while Buddy-Ro and Birdie work with me on school

3357. how Scott understands that clutter and disorder really get to me, so he works hard to help organize all of our stuff (that just keeps pouring in from Nana's house...)

3358. quiet days at home where we don't have to run around and go anywhere, we are just free to be together and take our time doing our own things

3359. picnics on the back porch

3360. snacks on the front porch

3361. a great neighbor directly across from us who is chatty, friendly, and who provided us with butter, forks, and knives when we couldn't get our hands on any during our first few days here. :)

Psalm 75:1, "We give thanks to you, O God; we give thanks, for your name is near. We recount your wondrous deeds."

Monday, August 25, 2014

Multitudes on Monday

3335. hearing Peanut tell us that he washes his hair with "poo poo" (and dying laughing each time, so he says it over and over and over!!!)

3336. Peanut asking to go to Pub-ix or Ingles to get Tic Tacs

3337. hearing Peanut say his High and Low at the dinner table

3338. how excited Birdie is about the new soft carpet that was put in her bedroom last Friday

3339. Buddy-Ro looking forward to sharing a room with Peanut

3340. our house being just 4 days shy of REALLY OURS for (Lord willing) ever!

3341. kind, patient, polite customer service representatives at Comcast and Disney who go out of their ways to correct problems

3342. dining reservations at our favorite Disney restaurants and some at new ones

3343. every time we get in the van, Peanut asks, "Going to Disney World, Mama?!"

3344. continued work

Psalm 54:6, "With a freewill offering I will sacrifice to you; I will give thanks to your name, O Lord, for it is good."

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Multitudes on Monday...on Wednesday, and why it almost wasn't.

It came time for me to list out my thanks on Monday, and I just couldn't do it. I was too busy,  too scattered, too distracted. And the thought occurred to me that maybe I was just done. Maybe I've listed all that I am thankful for, and that the time had come to an end. I thought to myself, "I don't want my Thanks to feel like a burden, so if I can't write them I just won't worry with them."

And that was the lie. That to feel thankful can ever be "done." That to take the time to list out my Thanks is a burden.

It's absolutely the opposite. My mantra for the last three years for myself, and that I have often shared with others, is that "It's hard to be discontent when you count your blessings." And I know without a doubt that this is true. I can't stop counting and listing out my blessings. I simply can't. For if I do, discontentment will creep in. It already started this week, and it's just Wednesday.

One of my children has been difficult this week during our school time. Difficult, dawdling, poor attitude, defiant. And I have looked at this child and been so discontent.. If ______ was only a better student... If ______ would just do the work... If only _______'s attitude was better, more cooperative, easier... I found my heart beginning to harden toward my own child; my own flesh and blood; my precious gift from the Lord. And I realized that I was not thanking God for the strengths and blessings that flow from ________. But when I did take the time to be thankful for _______'s compassion, gentleness, energy, out-going personality, my discontentment began to fade away and I was reminded what a blessing ______ is to our family and to me.

It's the exact same way with every other area of life. My van is constantly in need of being vacuumed. But when I simply stop and am thankful for a safe vehicle to haul our family around in, my perspective changes. I have more laundry lately than I can keep up with. But, goodness, at the wonderful people in my family who bring about that laundry. There isn't enough time in the day to do everything that I need or want, but I am sure thankful that God granted me yet another day with my family.

Perspective. That is what giving thanks is all about. It truly is hard to be discontent when you count your blessings because you finally, actually, right-in-front-of-your-face realize how much there is to say Thanks for.

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3323. going with Nana, Papa, and the kiddos to hike to a water fall over the weekend while Daddy had to work

3324. strong legs and feet that got us to the top of our hike

3325. the beauty of God's creation that surrounds us daily -- whether in a wildflower growing or a massive water fall that takes the breath away

3326. witnessing a proposal at the foot of the water fall and clapping in congratulations along with everyone else

3327. the kiddos traveling safely to and from Mimi's house for a couple of days

3328. Grace. Grace. Grace.

3329. 9 days until we begin moving into our new home

3330. passing needed inspections for the home

3331. very kind and outgoing new neighbors directly across from our new home

3332. a seasoned homeschool family next door to our new home

3333. working late into the wee morning hours with Scott to finish our beautiful kitchen that he designed and built for our home

3334. the memories, and the thanks, to be made in our new home

Psalm 30:11-12, "You have turned for me my mourning into dancing; you have loosed my sackcloth and clothed me with gladness, that my glory may sing your praise and not be silent.  Lord my God, I will give thanks to you forever!"

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Birdie's 8 year old interview

I interviewed Birdie for her birthday, and I kept thinking we would have a little photo shoot. But life at Nana's is not like life at our own house......so, no more waiting. I selected pictures from Birdie's birthday that I took on my phone (since it's always with me b/c it's easy to keep up with!).

It's fun to see what has changed and what has stayed the same over the last year. Birdie is growing up, that's for sure. EIGHT years old. I can hardly believe that my baby girl is 8, and that I have been a mama for 8 years. There are days that are super crazy challenging, but being this girl's mama is one of the best blessings of my life. So here we go!

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(M)ama: What do you want to be when you grow up?

(B)irdie: A librarian

(M): Why's that?

(B): Because I like to read and get books from the library.

(M): What is your favorite thing God has made?

(B): Flowers and people

IMG_5163 (Standing in front of what will be her vanity that her Daddy made for her new bathroom. She is so proud!)

(M): What is it you like about Daddy?

(B): He's strong and he makes good pancakes.


(M): What's your favorite color?

(B): Turquoise


(M): What is your favorite food?

(B): Tomatoes, pancakes, fried eggs (not runny), Dilly Bars...the list goes on and on!

(M): What is something that you don't like to eat?

(B): Mustard by itself


IMG_5202 (A gift from Ms. Vanessa who was our old next door neighbor. How sweet she was to remember Birdie's birthday!!)

(M): What is your favorite song?

(B): "Let it Go" from Frozen


(M): What are you looking forward to about being 8?

(B): Being able to make bracelets with my rainbow loom.

(M): What is your favorite thing to do?

(B): Play outside in the mud, run around, make bracelets, and spend time with my Mama and Daddy. (Melt.)


(M): What is your favorite thing to wear?

(B): Shorts and a t-shirt to get dirty. But I also like skirts and dresses, sometimes.

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(M): Who is your favorite friend?

(B): Jocelyn, Isabelle, Bryn, Kaitlin, Kylie, and Ariana.


(M): What is your favorite thing to do with Mama?

(B): Paint our fingernails and toenails.

(M): What is your favorite thing to do with Daddy?

(B): Play freeze-tag!


(M): Do you like school?

(B): Yes

(M): What do you like about school?

(B): I get to do art on Thursday, and I like doing my math on the computer (Uh, really??? It is CRAZY to me that she says this again this year because math is our biggest struggle.)


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(M): What is your favorite thing about Buddy-Ro?

(B): His dimples. (Totally had to fight to hold my chuckle in with this answer!!)

(M): What is your favorite thing about Peanut?

(B): He's cute and he likes to play fun games. And he sings in a really cute voice. ;)


(M): Where is your favorite place to go?

(B): Dairy Queen

(M): What does Daddy do all day?

(B): Work

(M): What does Mama do all day?

(B): Laundry, dishes, fold clothes, cook, teach school, and work.


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(M): What is your favorite restaurant?

(B): Golden Corral


(M): What do you want to eat on your birthday?

(B): Cinnamon muffins, pizza, and ice cream cake.


(M): I love you, Baby Bird.

(B): I love you.

(M): I love you more.

(B): I love you mostest in the whole wide world. (This is what my Mamaw and I used to say to each other when I was little. And now Birdie and I share it.)

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Birdie-girl, you have changed a lot over the last year. While you are still a sweet girl, you often need to be reminded to use a more gentle tone of voice, and your patience has wavered a bit over the last few months. I am finding that I require more and more time on my knees asking for wisdom for how to parent you as you want to be a bigger girl but aren't quite there yet. However, there are still glimpses of the sweet, sensitive, caring, helpful, compassionate girl that you truly are. I am already starting to dread the hormonal years to come as I see little bits of what may be in store...and I keep praying that God will prepare me before we actually get there. You truly are beautiful inside and out, and when I see your inside beauty peeking through my heart leaps with joy. I understand that growing up is hard work, and sometimes it takes a toll on you -- but don't forget to keep your heart anchored in Jesus so that He can light your way and help you make good choices. You will always be my most precious little girl, and I am always here for you. I am so proud to be your Mama; even on the hard days. You have my heart, and I've always got your back.  I love you, Birdie-girl. ~Mama

Monday, August 11, 2014

Multitudes on Monday

3311. a wonderful, sweet, healthy and strong 8 year old daughter

3312. Birdie's nurturing heart and love for her family

3313. her sensitive spirit, even though it does allow for her heart to be broken more easily

3314. how she will tell her Daddy and me what's on her heart and mind, and I pray that her open communication will continue forever with us

3315. rainbow loom bracelets that Birdie now makes for everyone...and she has still yet to make one for herself

3316. tomatoes to put on yellow jacket stings

3317. cooler August days with overcast skies so that we aren't all dripping in sweat outside

3318. planning another Disney vacation as a family with Mimi, Ron, Nana & Papa

3319. how Peanut loves to watch our Disney DVDs since we've been talking about going back to Disney - he's already excited!

3320. starting back to school (as much as possible while still at Nana's house)

3321. Buddy-Ro's excitement to learn and his focused attention on his work

3322. homeschooling our kiddos and being with them during the days -- some days are rough (Math is rough...), but most days are good and filled with memories of being together

Psalm 79:13, "But we your people, the sheep of your pasture, will give thanks to you forever; from generation to generation we will recount your praise."

Monday, August 4, 2014

Multitudes on Monday

3302. Scott driving home today bringing cabinets for our own home!!

3303. how hard Scott works for our family and our new home

3304. school curriculum that is organized and ready for when we are able to start school

3305. gluten free pretzels that taste really good

3306. 25 days and counting until we {hopefully} close on our new home

3307. the paint colors that I chose for our new home turning out just as I wanted them -- paint colors are so stressful

3308. light fixtures and hardwood floors in making the house look more complete

3309. friendly neighbors who have welcomed us already

3310. praying with my children before bed so that the last things they hear are God's promises whispered in their ears

Psalm 28:7, "The Lord is my strength and my shield; in Him my heart trusts, and I am helped; my heart exults, and with my song I give thanks to Him."