My heart has been so heavy this week with unspeakable loss and tragedy. It's so easy to ask "Why, God?" in the midst of it all, but that question won't be answered in this life. We don't understand - can't understand - but that's not really our task. Our task is to live in trust and allow His Glory through our messy lives.
I am reading the book Shattered Dreams by Larry Crabb. Actually, I am reading it and re-reading it at the same time. It has been such a profound book for me and "where I've been" that I find that I can't read it like a typical book. I have read each chapter at least 3 times, and I am only on Chapter 8. Basically, the book is based on the idea that:
"Shattered dreams are never random. They are always a piece in a larger puzzle, a chapter in a larger story. The Holy Spirit uses the pain of shattered dreams to help us discover our desire for God, to help us begin dreaming the highest dream. They are ordained opportunities for the Spirit first to awaken, then to satisfy our highest dream."
Chapter One is titled, "My Problem With God." I knew that I was going to find this book enlightening just by that title. You see, I have had my fair share of "problems with God." Call me a brat (and it's OK if you do...nicely please...because I have called myself one before) - but in the past I've really been fed up with God because I simply haven't gotten my way.
Wow. Talk about cold reality.
I haven't been getting my way. And I've been bitter about it. You see, in my worldly opinion there's nothing wrong with My Way.
As Crabb asks, "How do we trust a sometimes disappointing, seemingly fickle God who fails to do for us what good friends, if they could, would do?"
And then he answers.
"The problem sincere Christians have with God often comes down to a wrong understanding of what this life is meant to provide. We naturally and wrongly assume we're here to experience something God has never promised...Both good hopes and best hopes are guaranteed in heaven. But fulfillment of the best hopes is not yet promised in this life."
The highest dream we can ever experience is being in the presence of God. We will not suffer in heaven; there will be no loss. Every imaginable dream will come true.
But this life is not meant to provide the fulfillment of the highest dream. This life is meant to "stir an appetite for a higher purpose -- the better hope of knowing God well enough to love Him above everything else...and trusting Him no matter what happens."
Trusting God above our shattered dreams.
Trusting God when we don't get our way.
Trusting God through overwhelming circumstances and loss.
Trusting God even when He seems so distant we wonder if He even cares.
It's hard.
For many of us, we have wrongly equated God blessing us with God loving us. If God gives us what we want, He must love us. If God refuses to grant our requests, He must be with-holding His love from us.
But, we couldn't be more wrong.
God doesn't want us to settle for Good when He can only provide what's Best.
Shattered dreams open the door to this Best Dream, a dream that we do not properly understand until those "good dreams" are destroyed.
My good dreams have been destroyed. Over and over again.
Destruction of dreams is painful. It has been tear-wrenching, fist-waving, fightin' word screaming, door slamming (me, not God) - hard.
But suffering in this world still has a purpose. It's often long; it's hard; it's trying and frustrating. But it can also bring us to the place where we no longer want to settle.
To no longer demand what's good, but to desire what's best.
Crabb envisions Jesus speaking to us in the Garden of Gethsemane saying,
"Some of your fondest dreams will shatter, and you will be tempted to lose hope. I will seem to you callous or, worse, weak -- unresponsive to your pain. You will wonder if I cannot do anything or simply will not. I will seem to withdraw from you and do nothing. BUT, a plan is unfolding that you can not clearly see. If you could see it as I do, you would still hurt [shattered dreams], but you would not lose hope. You would gladly remain faithful to me in the middle of the worst suffering."
Why?
Because we have hope of the BEST that is to come.
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