(Disclaimer: This is my from my heart, and my opinion. :))Over the the past few months, I have come across a whole lot of people asking the same question: Should Christians homeschool?
There are many different reasons people choose to homeschool, and most of them are valid. Many families choose to homeschool because it is convenient for their busy schedules. Many families choose to homeschool because they want to be with their children all-day-long-every-day
(I'm one of those "crazy" people!). People choose to homeschool because they feel that their children will receive a better education at home, or because they want to filter the influences in their children's lives. People choose to homeschool because of their physical location. See, lots of different reasons.
Of course, there are also a lot of different reasons that people choose not to homeschool: the whole "socialization" issue, parents have to work, parents don't feel called to homeschool, parents feel that their children will receive a better education in the public school system, parents want their children to be able to play sports competitively. All of these are valid reasons.
However, I have heard many people lately say, "Christians should not homeschool their children because they need to be a light for Jesus."
Hmmm. I think this reasoning needs to be evaluated.Children are children. They are young, they are immature, and most of them simply do not have the ability to be a "light for Jesus." Children cannot evangelize public schools when they don't know what they truly believe and why they believe it. When we believe something,
believe in something, we are not influenced by others and what they believe.
In the Bible, Jesus himself is not reported to have started any kind of evangelism until age 12 when He and His parents went to the temple. Twelve years old is a mighty big difference from five, or six, or even 10 years old. A twelve year old has the ability to understand {more of} what s/he believes and why. So if the argument was that "I am sending my high school student into public school to be a light for Jesus," it may have a better argument behind it.
But it's many elementary school parents who are saying this, and that is what's being evaluated here. Children are the most impressionable beings on the planet. Children know better, but still do wrong all of the time. Do you tell your children not to lie at home?
Do they? Do you tell your children to speak politely at home?
Do they ever speak rudely? Do you tell your children to be kind to one another at home?
Do they ever treat others unkindly? Do you tell your children that it doesn't matter what your brother/sister is doing, you still need to make your own decisions at home?
Do you have to discipline your child for "going along" with poor behavior?
My point? You can raise your child in a Christian home, but you will still deal with human issues. If you are rearing your child at home with Christian values, but you still see sin in their lives - how is that going to change by sending them to public school? Many Christian parents today argue that their children should have an opportunity to influence the secular world and, thus, send them to public schools. They see themselves as using public school as a ministry opportunity. Question:
Are they sacrificing their children and their faith on the altar of opportunity? Children are immature little creatures. Are they really ready to be a light for Jesus? Can you truly think of a situation in which a child will not be influenced -
good or bad - at a young and impressionable age?
The Great Commission
(which is what most parents are referring to when they say they want their child to be a "light for Jesus") says this: "Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to obey all that I commanded you…" If our children do not understand and obey all that the Lord commands within our own homes, how will they "make disciples" in the public school? How will they, as children, not be influenced by the secular ideas that you teach
against in your home?
I am not arguing whether public school is better or worse than a homeschool environment. If you feel that your child will receive a better education at public school - send him. If you think that your child needs socialization or exposure to sports - send her. But if your only reason to send your child to public school is so that s/he will be a "light for Jesus," I think you need to examine that. Children aren’t to the age yet to be disciples as they are still little sheep.
And they are easily led astray.Again, if public school is your choice because of academic standards or sports opportunities or because you work - that is a sound decision.
But if your decision to send your child to public school rests solely on the basis of your child being a "light for Jesus," I hope you will reevaluate your reason.