Good Parenting Reminders

"A Child's 10 Commandments to Parents"

by Dr. Kevin Leman

1.
My hands are small; please don't expect perfection whenever I make a
bed, draw a picture, or throw a ball. My legs are short; please slow
down so that I can keep up with you.

2. My eyes have not seen the world as yours have; please let me explore safely. Don't restrict me unnecessarily.

3.
Housework will always be there. I'm only little for a short time,
please take time to explain things to me about this wonderful world and
do so willingly.

4. My feelings are tender; please be sensitive to
my needs. Don't nag me all day long. (You wouldn't want to be nagged
for your inquisitiveness). Treat me as you would like to be treated.

5.
I am a special gift from God; please treasure me as God intended you to
do, holding me accountable for my actions, giving me guidelines to live
by and disciplining me in a loving manner.

6. I need your encouragement to grow. Please go easy on the criticism.

7.
Please give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself. Permit
me to fail, so that I can learn from my mistakes. Then someday I'll be
prepared to make the kinds of decisions that life requires of me.

8.
Please don't do things over for me. Somehow that makes me feel that my
efforts didn't quite measure up to your expectations. I know it's hard,
but please don't try to compare me to my brother or sister.

9.
Please don't be afraid to leave for a weekend together. Kids need
vacations from parents, just as parents need vacations from kids.
Besides, it's a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very
special.

10. Please teach me about Jesus and take me to church
regularly, setting a good example for me to follow. I enjoy learning
more about God.